My older sister (only sibling) is a narcissist of the highest degree. She’s caused so much damage in my life, and it wasn’t until my husband pointed out — after many years of marriage — that she was a master manipulator that I saw it for myself. She encouraged my parents to all but break off ties with me, and it was only after their deaths that I allowed myself to stop trying to have a relationship with her for family’s sake. She’s toxic, and I’m so much more emotionally at peace without any contact.